Log Server Creation after Upgrade

Hi,

I upgrade web security from 775 to 782.  Using clustered sql on separate boxes.  During the install, I received the message about not being able to create the log server.....continue and setup later.  I did.  Now i can't update my log server.On the server where websense is installed, i started a cmd prompt and went to

(in my case) d:\websense\web security\sql and tried the createdbu.  i keep getting vaildation failed:  network error IOException:  Connection refused: connect launch4j:  an error occurred while starting the application

I try a different user account and i get login failed for user xxx

I checked sql management and the login I'm putting is the correct one.  What am i missing

any help appreciated

Thanks